tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7114550848886065684.post8052198309834792164..comments2023-06-22T02:41:07.033-07:00Comments on Diary Of Commoner: Getting Married Or Getting Financially Broke?Unknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger18125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7114550848886065684.post-49443499462727765722009-10-16T21:38:44.234-07:002009-10-16T21:38:44.234-07:00itu ler...aku pikiaq cam nak kawin tahun depan aje...itu ler...aku pikiaq cam nak kawin tahun depan ajer lepas dapat taraf berpencen then kuaq semua KWSP...kawin...orang semua cakap tak cukup...tapi aku bukan nak wat yang grand grand...just enough untuk kengkawan and family datang tuk menyambut kegembiraan aku...heheheh<br /><br />betul betul...debt is a big thing...dah ler keta punya debt pon tak abis bayar lagi...nak tambah lagi on top of that?i dont think so...kalau the debt is to buy a house then tak kisah la...coz its something for the future together<br /><br />aku tau...tapi dont you think that the guy also nak kena wat dia punya side punya kenduri gak? kalau gabung cam ko...okay la...it is as if the investment together for the marriage...as for hantaran aku dah tak risau dah...aku dah ada sponsors...hauhauahauhauhResm A.https://www.blogger.com/profile/09035070693650184951noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7114550848886065684.post-37467671896474140312009-10-16T08:40:31.818-07:002009-10-16T08:40:31.818-07:00If dekat2, buat ar gabung cam aku.. Jimat banyak g...If dekat2, buat ar gabung cam aku.. Jimat banyak giler weh and sangat2 bersyukur sebab Wan tak perlu berhutang..<br /><br />Seriously, starting a family with debt is a big NO. Nanti bile tensyen, mule ungkit mengungkit..<br /><br />kadang2, ade family yang demand tinggi sikit tu bukannye ape, diorang nak tampung duit belanja majlis.. Biasalar, bab kawin ni, parents yang extra excited..papaYAhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13677430898922819234noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7114550848886065684.post-27061370406565991302009-10-14T21:27:40.777-07:002009-10-14T21:27:40.777-07:00exactly my point...exactly my point...Resm A.https://www.blogger.com/profile/09035070693650184951noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7114550848886065684.post-16168634941865369702009-10-14T20:24:50.186-07:002009-10-14T20:24:50.186-07:00apa kejadahnya buang duit buat wedding besar2? pas...apa kejadahnya buang duit buat wedding besar2? pastu berhutang.<br /><br />kan lagi bagus duit tu buat gi honeymmon kat europe.Al Hadihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01216493199159109103noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7114550848886065684.post-17870454015423484752009-10-14T20:07:51.558-07:002009-10-14T20:07:51.558-07:00pasal dowry tu yang aku heran skit tu...kalau nak ...pasal dowry tu yang aku heran skit tu...kalau nak bagi kat anak dia balik untuk start up new life like buying all those basic necesseties perlukah demand?sebab in the end guna sama gak laki bini...or is it just for the sake of the numbers?<br /><br />demand RM15k...and seriously aku memang tak tau how people put on the market price...cam aku cakap dalam blog aku, ada tu sebab ada neighbor/relative pressure...kalau mintak skit kata tak laku and all...haiiii....memang alamat aku ni rasanya akan end up dengan orphan la kot...just mas kawin, majlis...no need for hantaran...coz hantaran is not the wajib part...its just the adat melayu...mas kahwin wajib...people tend to be confused between the two...<br /><br />cam aku cakap la...aku tak berate people who demand high dowry...just, kalau boleh aku taknak la kena ikat perut semata mata...tapi kalau jadi gak kat aku then i just take it as ketentuan Allah...Resm A.https://www.blogger.com/profile/09035070693650184951noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7114550848886065684.post-84315902950826067892009-10-14T17:57:25.372-07:002009-10-14T17:57:25.372-07:00tak perlu yang lavish. if you can plan it well, u&...tak perlu yang lavish. if you can plan it well, u'll have a simple but a grand one. that's my target. in my condition mal, the dowry will be used to pay the dais, the food and all. tak masuk poket sendiri pun. hehehe. separuh org, dowry tu dia bagi dekat anak dia balik to start up new life like buying sofa/bed/tv basic necessities. <br /><br />and again, terpulang kepada keluarga tu. my future sis in law demanded RM15K dan dia hanya SPM holder je. cuma, dia meniaga pasar malam and earn like RM5-8K every month. it depends on the family. hehe. jgn terkejut tgk dowry aku nanti ok?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7114550848886065684.post-6443010112349827242009-10-14T17:37:30.237-07:002009-10-14T17:37:30.237-07:00jaja : betul pok..moderate wedding ~simpan duit~bl...jaja : betul pok..moderate wedding ~simpan duit~bley gi travel..huahauha<br /><br />mala : i totally agree...and i do agree on the aspect the western do have their wedding in a small scale by inviting only certain people that they want to invite...the person whom presence means a lot to the couple...big weddings?my big bro had one...and it was hectic...my parents seems to be enjoying it...everyone actually enjoyed that...good for them...but after that...hurmmm...needless to say lah...thats why i say...i wouldn't spend alot on the ceremony...but i would spend the money that supposed to spent on the wedding for the new home, honeymoon etc...but well...thats just me...Resm A.https://www.blogger.com/profile/09035070693650184951noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7114550848886065684.post-42425921794510980482009-10-14T16:52:02.602-07:002009-10-14T16:52:02.602-07:00people always tend to forget that the post-wedding...people always tend to forget that the post-wedding is the one that should be memorable. <br /><br />wedding should be a happy occassion. i'm not saying that the western culture (do they have one anyway?) but look at how small and intimate their weddings are. <br /><br />memang meriah to have big weddings. if you can afford it, why not? but even if i can, i wouldn't. the investment is supposed to be on the relationship, not the event celebrating it.marmaladenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7114550848886065684.post-43113598117640203212009-10-14T02:07:27.642-07:002009-10-14T02:07:27.642-07:00well, better go for a moderate wedding laa...well, better go for a moderate wedding laa...Jaja Yunizahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07824348407360844220noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7114550848886065684.post-3069168942027133562009-10-14T01:55:09.136-07:002009-10-14T01:55:09.136-07:00nawal : thanks...and be sure to invite me for your...nawal : thanks...and be sure to invite me for your weddin...i sure will have you in my invitation list..heheheh<br /><br />leen : betul...aku memang ler nak kawin...cuma tuhan tak bagi petunjuk lagi....insya allah...tahun depan aku rasa ada ajer bertambah geng Jalan TAR...tapi tak tau sapa...<br />p.s : yang pastinya akan ada tina & zaimee junior..huahuah...tina dah confirm pregnant 1 bulanResm A.https://www.blogger.com/profile/09035070693650184951noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7114550848886065684.post-23394470388715434962009-10-14T00:53:17.775-07:002009-10-14T00:53:17.775-07:00~jodoh adalah ketentuan tuhan yang tidak berubah~
...~jodoh adalah ketentuan tuhan yang tidak berubah~<br /><br />i like this quote!<br /><br />nway..<br /><br />cepat la kawen mal..leh tambah geng ke jalan tar neh..mcm mie n tina..nazathttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02454751002892286639noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7114550848886065684.post-46445697858455069672009-10-13T23:21:34.733-07:002009-10-13T23:21:34.733-07:00My wedding would be an unforgettable one! even for...My wedding would be an unforgettable one! even for those who attend :-) I want a funky kewl wedding! <br /><br />well..best of luck! have fun dulu k! :-)Nadewashttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14070595855486725387noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7114550848886065684.post-10865652078284575712009-10-13T22:05:54.414-07:002009-10-13T22:05:54.414-07:00zet : hahahaha...its a matter of choice honey...hu...zet : hahahaha...its a matter of choice honey...huahauhauhauResm A.https://www.blogger.com/profile/09035070693650184951noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7114550848886065684.post-74704822354742711522009-10-13T20:55:18.070-07:002009-10-13T20:55:18.070-07:00mamal: keji okey! owh you're so vain!mamal: keji okey! owh you're so vain!xetxethttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09218175128975463845noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7114550848886065684.post-56634272643479869032009-10-13T20:32:28.346-07:002009-10-13T20:32:28.346-07:00rara : kalau nak lavish...aku suh dia wat belah di...rara : kalau nak lavish...aku suh dia wat belah dia punya kenduri...me? NO SANDING...thats all...<br /><br />zet : yeah i experience it as well during my big bro's wedding...thats why i will just be happy with modest wedding...and kalau la bakal bini i nak jugak LAVISH & EXTRAVAGANT WEDDING, then she can have that waktu kenduri belah dia la...pihak laki wat kenduri menyambut ajer...huahauha...keji tak setetmen?<br /><br />cher : owh dat so sweet....i hope i will me the girl of senaskah al-quran....Resm A.https://www.blogger.com/profile/09035070693650184951noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7114550848886065684.post-58719538324033118082009-10-13T17:54:21.542-07:002009-10-13T17:54:21.542-07:00yep.. kene banyak discuss la kot mal.. kadang2 kel...yep.. kene banyak discuss la kot mal.. kadang2 keluarga punya kehendak lagi..macam2 kalo nak kawen ni..penin okeyhh.. and i pray that you will meet your dream girl of "senaskhah Al-Quran" heheheh :)Cherrie Pie Sweetyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01846485858374929648noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7114550848886065684.post-86186710860127351282009-10-13T17:42:28.065-07:002009-10-13T17:42:28.065-07:00It all depends on both sides. Kalau boleh, I nak s...It all depends on both sides. Kalau boleh, I nak simple je, takyah lavish pun. *ceh.. Tengok kemampuan pihak lelaki macam mana jugak. Yang penting everything berjalan lancar. <br /><br />But masa cousin I kawen, dia tension sebab banyak gadoh dengan her husband time tu. Planning for the wedding could be excruciating for some people.xetxethttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09218175128975463845noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7114550848886065684.post-35126911586476597592009-10-13T08:43:46.019-07:002009-10-13T08:43:46.019-07:00well akmal, it's depends. kalau bakal bini kau...well akmal, it's depends. kalau bakal bini kau ok nak buat simple2, ok la.<br /><br />tak kisah la asalkan kawen sudahhh.<br /><br />aku takpa 2011 so sempat simpan duit. ahaksRARAhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00198593978946091192noreply@blogger.com