Just read an interesting entry by my dear blogger friend...
It interesting in such a way that its reality...people do put up with other people behavior and doesn't say a word to their faces...it happens too many times...but sometimes these people doesn't do anything wrong or bad to the respective people but always being victimized as their sole conversation topic...not really sure what's their issue but it does happen as well...
There's an example scenario...A wanted so badly to be 'bff' to B but A can't since B is extremely close 'bff' with C...so A will start to badmouth C to B until at one point B started to believe A and then without notice C will lose the so-called 'bff'...owh this does happens as well...
People will often said that life is unfair...but the thing is...life is always fair...its how people perceived things that happened to them and accept it as their fate and work harder and pray to be given 'rezeki' by the almighty will make a difference...but the reality is...people are never satisfied with what they have...its okay...but don't put fault to others...that's what make the terrible feelings to appear and consequently leads to unnecessary jealousy and finally it will affect others...
Close friends/ best friends are indeed rare items in this world...handle it with care...coz you'll never know when will you be so blessed with it again...its better to cut off ties with the ones that you are not comfortable with rather than trying to put up with their behaviors and in the end wouldn't do the person justice as they have no idea that their so-called-bff are not as the way they thought it should be...
Friends are indeed a matter of preferences...one can pick and choose whomever they want to be close with or comfortable with and cut off with the ones that give more headache than mind bliss...i remember a statement that a dear friend told me once a few years back that made me re-evaluate my thoughts on friendship...one will never know who doesn't like you coz they know how to pretend...but one will always know the one who does coz the heart will recognize it...
Echo
1 comment:
it's true what you wrote.
and the advise given to you.
we can never know who doesn't really like us; but whether we care or not, depends on us. i do complain about my friends sometimes. got annoyed wif them - biasalah kan. even best friends have to fight too. but usually, it will go off. you marah time-time tu je and then we will be ok again.
but ada yang pura-pura kan akmal.
and i thought again, buat apa nak put up wif such behaviours. kalau you dah tak suke perangai certain orang tuh, and that person obviously have a badddddd impact in your life, blah jelah. buat apa stay in the friendship and got kecik hati all the time and then kutuk belakang-belakang?
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