Saturday, November 27, 2010

Intimidated...Insecure...

I don't know why i always stumble into this kind of situation...

I do wonder though...why my friends' (noted the plural terms) respective boyfriends (not husband or fiance' hokey) are intimidated by me...i known their respective girlfriends first before they got into relationship with them...in some cases...both are actually introduced by me whereas their boyfriends are actually my friends as well...

That's why...i was seriously flabbergasted when i was told by my friends that their respective boyfriends are 'troubled' with the fact that i am in a really good terms with their 'significant others'...there had been moments that these friends of mine have to resort to trickery just to hang out...worrying that it will upset their boyfriend...what da fish la weih?

Lets analyse...i don't have that supermodel look...i am not in the category of having lots of money to flaunt away...i am not some smart guy who passes exams with flying colors...i am not categorised in those who are 'polished' in terms of appearance (sangat selekeh hokey)...thats why i don't know why there is the need for these boyfriends of my friends to feel intimidated or feeling insecure about me hanging out with their girlfriends which once again are my good friends since like...forever (okay that is a lil bit 'over')...but you do get my meaning...

It had happened before...and recently it happened again...the best part of the whole thing was...i was the one who actually introduced this particular friend of mine to this another good friend of mine...

Jealousy is seriously a funny thing...as it can be a good thing (as some people will take it as a sign of caring)...but in most time it can be annoying (as what i am in right now)...looking back at my previous experience...it will not turn out good...as there will be another name to be crossed out from my hang out list...intimidated or insecure...please get over it...

ajie
1:49 p.m
28 November 2010
Kuching, Sarawak


15 comments:

SurayaHarris said...

Bur you have 'the heart' man...=)

HaRaShO HiDaYaH said...

mmg hampeh la mcm ni lagi2 kalo kita yg kenalkan...i ada experience gak...tp yg kelakar, bf dia marah gf dia kuar ngn i konon takut sosial...sdgkan kami dah kawan b4 diorg kenal...saiko sungguh....

marmalade said...

you have a gf? and you didn't tell me pun! we last met during raya haji. cis!

Hasina Terebuzzu said...

apa lah yg org dok dengki ngn hang ni mal??? agak2.. kalo calon suami aku tgk gmbr scandalous kita, dia akan jeles gak ke??? =p

Adrian said...

Wait wait wait. You have a girlfriend?!

muhamadakmalwahab said...

cikgu suraya :
have the heart?

hidayah :
betul kan...sakit ati jer...

muhamadakmalwahab said...

cik hayati :
girlfriend or calon isteri? hehehe...

ina :
yang pasal benda ni pernah jadi sebelum nie...tapi aku memang hangin dengan yang paling recent...sebab selamba badak ajer mamat tu...padahal baru kenal member aku tak sampai dua bulan pon lagi...

muhamadakmalwahab said...

adrian :
huh? ada ker?

marmalade said...

cis. dia delete para tuh.
baru nak quote :p hahahahahahahahahaha.

eh, boleh ke "seriously flabbergasted"? is that even possible? hahahahaha.

muhamadakmalwahab said...

cik hayati :
terlepas tulis plak...hahaha...its possible...but grammatically incorrect...hagahahaha...

patunghujan a.k.a cik teruterubozu said...

mal, take it from the bright side
diri u yg selekeh (u yg claim cmtu even 4 me u r not)leh buat bf org rase tergugat, bayangkan if ur well polish, huh , juz imagine...

muhamadakmalwahab said...

ck teruterubozu :
ntah le...tapi yang pastinya i am seriously annoyed...

patunghujan a.k.a cik teruterubozu said...

some people lebih sudu dr kuah. bru jek kenal, nk control lebih2, klu dh kawin memg xleh nk question laa
ni xde apa2 pn lg

Khairul Amri Ishak said...

akmal:

rilekslah bro,
ko kan ensem,
tinggi,friendly,selekeh...ahaha

yg tu yg buat bf kwn2 hg tu insecure.intimidated..

feel sorry 4 themselves,
its not ur problem rite?

muhamadakmalwahab said...

teruterubozu :
some people are simply hard to understand...

ryo :
masalahnya cam ada barrier plak aku nak jumpa kengkawan aku...kalau dah kawin tu aku tak kisah la...tapi...aiiii...ntah ler...