2 Reasons Why Your BFF Should Never Be Your Girlfriend/ Boyfriend

Its my own perception...people can choose to agree or not to agree...

Reason One
- Your BFF know too much about each other...a lil bit too much i might say coz as usual we tend to be a lil bit transparent with BFF compared to respective girlfriend/ boyfriend (as i said this is my perception only la, maybe not applied to others)

Reason Two
- If it doesn't work out between the two of you, you will not only lose your girlfriend/ boyfriend...but you will also lose your BFF

Senseless guy going on with another senseless ramblings...

ajie
3:17 p.m
29 January 2010
Putrajaya

Fiction Or Non-Fiction in Disguise?

Most of my close friends do know about my particular habit of going off for movies...i love watching movies...any kind of movies...if the mood strikes in, i would engulfed myself in a good romance movie, when i feel like it, i would go for an action movies and so on...if the movie is not based on a true story (as stated), they would have this fine prints stating that the movie was indeed fictional with fictional characters and not related to anyone...owh yeah rite...

I have my own view on this particular statement...for me all movies are real...it is actually a silver screen interpretation of what had been going on around us...eventho they mentioned that it was indeed a fictional character, i dont think that the movie itself was entirely fiction...someone, somewhere in this world might feel related to the movie and saying ~owh the movie is just like my life story (sobbing endlessly-if it is a sad story lah)~

Movies are man-made 'fiction'...but is it a total fiction? personally i seriously don't agree with the statement that it is a fiction...and i think most housewives (no offence) dont think that it is a fiction...they somehow have so many times in their hand (after handling the dishes and all) to dwell on movies or dramas shown in the tv...out of the blue, they feel connected to it...and here comes the blow...comparing their life to the ones in the tv...thinking, if it happens in the silverscreen, it has a high percentage that it could happen in real life...erkkk...back then i was begging to differ...but now i see the lights in different view...

Why is that? somehow i think that everyone life story deserve an airtime as a soap opera...hahahaha...seriously...i do think that...if we see movies in the market nowadays (or even back then), if they are portraying characters in the present time (as the movie was made), they indeed throw in every single adaptation that they could think off from their surroundings...maybe it is a mixture of more than 2 individuals...since i am now going for malaysian products, i would take the overexposed popular soap malay drama 'Nurkasih' (i admit i was a constant follower as well)...someone told me that her life is almost as portrayed in the drama...not the exact settings and all, but the overall content of the drama...girl meets boy then girl sacrifice a lot for the boy then boy go find another only to realise the girl is the one he should stick to and the other girl stepped in to snatch the boy and the girl relent and the boy realise he had to make a choice and was held in between the non-solving problem...a little thorough...how many would go on and say that their life story can be related to this particular drama (owh i see people raising their hands)...exactly my point...

Dramas/ Movies are made in a different settings...but the whole storyline and the characters portrayed are indeed real...you can find them within your own circle or surroudings...i have no doubt about that...honestly, i do believe there was (or still there is) a person as intelligent as Sherlock Holmes...or even science fiction movies such as Star Wars was actually loosely based on a japanese movie by akira something the name...entitled hidden fortress which was loosely based on the japanese samurai's life during the samurai war era...and i read somewhere, it was stated that avatar does have its hidden messages of the current world situation which i kinda agree...

Recently in malaysia, the play 'Natrah' was selling like hot cakes...it was based on a true story of a girl's life of the same name...and not many knew that there was actually a movie loosely based on natrah's life story produced somewhere in the 80's entitled Jasmin...

All in all, i do believe that if it happens in the silverscreen...it might happen in real life...or it has happened to someone, somewhere...and if it happens in a movie, it can happen to you too...owh i love the movie it could happen to you by the way...another senseless ramblings from a senseless guy...

ajie

10:07 p.m

28 January 2010

Putrajaya

Girl Friends or Girlfriend? Boy Friends or Boyfriend?

Confused...aku rasa the wording was clear enough...the first adjective is to represent the sex of the friends and the latter are 'the' someone special for respective people...tapi kan apesal, in certain cases, people always refused to believe the former and rather believe in the latter...confused again?

Camni la kan...contohnya sorang laki ni kawan rapat dengan pompuan nie...mesti orang luar akan cakap, owh that is his girlfriend and vice versa...padahal the truth was it was girl-friend and boy-friend respectively...bukan ada hanky panky lovey dovey romi juli titanik style...tapi people mostly refused to believe that...why?

Easy (bak kata Ady), kalau laki tu kawan dengan pompuan tu tapi takder feeling nak 'ehem ehem' dengan pompuan tu, laki tu ada 'something' wrong somewhere...wadafish...tapi not in his case (dengan selambanya mendefend diri), coz in his case, they know each other rather too well that it is impossible that they would end up as a couple...sebab dah macam adik bradik (eventho not blood-related)...yeah...that is the right answer actually...

Aku agree to the latter answer (yang awal tu memang sengal ajer bunyiknya) coz for me, its not easy for a guy to be close to a girl...and it is even harder to make a girl as his best friend coz both of them are two different entity (men are from mars and women are from venus bullshit thingie)...tanya aku apsal? i dont have any answer for that...but from what i had seen within my friends and the surroundings...no matter how close one gets to their respective partner, they would still go back to their respective best friends when the goin's get tough...that's a fact...it is very rare to see a guy/ gal share every single detail with their respective partner (my friend said it is a stupid thing to do)...why? relationship have its own percentage of failure...and it is quite high...imagine if both broke up non-amicably? all hell break loose man...(fahrin and linda onn case, hellooooo)...every single dirt are out in the open space....erkkkkk

So which one is more important? the former or the latter....we have to understand the fact that girlfriend/ boyfriend are not necessarily end up to be your respective partner...but your girl friends and boy friends will remain as your friends forever (high percentage lah daripada kapeling)...this is a fact...not some illustrated illusion of some sort....

In the nutshell...take care of your friends...coz they would very likely to be around regardless...i am not saying that your girlfriend/ boyfriend wont, but this is just from my observation...so please do consider your friends' feelings when you started to ignore them because you have girlfriend/ boyfriend...coz you better pray that your girlfriend/ boyfriend will be with you forever, otherwise, when you lose your girlfriend/ boyfriend, you already lose your friends prior to the break up if you are not careful....just a senseless ramblings from a senseless guy...

ajie
2:24 p.m
28 January 2010
Putrajaya

Si Muka Lopak & Si Muka Licin

Al kisah tersebut lah cerita, mengenai seorang lelaki, Si Muka Lopak yang bersahabat sekian lama dengan seorang perempuan, Si Muka Licin...hendak dijadikan cerita...setelah sekian lama bersahabat sejak sekolah rendah hingga ke sekolah menengah dan terpisah sewaktu belajar...mereka bertemu semula di kota metropolitan...

memandangkan jarak mereka agak dekat...mereka menyambung semula ikatan persahabatan yang telah lama terpisah itu...mereka menjadi bff...si muka lopak ini telah mengharungi banyak kegagalan dalam arena perkapelan dan si muka licin ini pula telah menjadi single mingle setelah berkapelan dengan seseorang...si muka lopak berfikir sejenak...dan menyambung pemikiran itu hingga ke benua yang lain...*mengapa perlu cari orang yang lain, apa kata cuba mengajak si muka licin untuk coba melihat sejauh mana kekimiaan di antara mereka untuk menjadi lebih daripada kawan*...

sekembalinya si muka lopak dari benua yang lain itu, si muka lopak menyuarakan hasrat kepada si muka licin...dengan syarat, jika kekimiaan itu tidak wujud untuk lebih daripada menjadi sahabat, mereka akan tiada rasa tidak puas hati di antara satu sama lain...bagi si muka lopak...mereka bukan berkapel...tetapi sekadar mencoba unsur-unsur kimia (jika wujud)...lain pula ceritanya dengan si muka licin...habis di hebahkannya di muka buku untuk semua orang mengikuti perkembangan cereka swasta mereka itu...

nak dijadikan cerita, si muka licin ini juga mengenali seisi keluarga si muka lopak ini kerana mereka dulu bersekolah di sekolah yang sama di suatu tempat yang diberi nama sempena nama sejenis pokok...atau buah...entah...lupa pulak...oleh itu, keluarga si muka lopak menyukai si muka licin ini...

namun begitu si muka lopak seakan menyesali keterlanjuran niat itu, kerana si muka licin telah menjadi seseorang yang berlainan dengan apa yang dikenali oleh si muka lopak...pengharapan tinggi si muka licin menjadikan si muka lopak berasa bersalah dan cuba untuk meleraikan apa yang telah diniatkan sebelum ini...untuk mencoba kekimiaan di antara mereka...

oleh itu, setelah menguatkan hati dan diri untuk menyuarakan isi hati yang terpendam itu, si muka lopak telah memberitahu secara berdepan si muka licin mengenai tiadanya unsur-unsur ikatan kimia yang kuat antara mereka...and memutuskan untuk terus bersahabat...si muka licin nampak seakan akur menerimanya dengan tenang...and si muka lopak berasa sungguh lega kerana si muka lopak masih menyayangi ikatan persahabatan mereka itu dan mereka boleh bersahabat semula seperti biasa....tapi ternyata harapan si muka lopak adalah sia sia....

malam itu, sekembalinya si muka lopak ke rumah, si muka lopak dihujani pesanan ringkas daripada teman serumah si muka licin yang menghentam si muka lopak...bukan itu sahaja, si muka licin telah menghebahkannya di muka buka dan komen komen ganazsss daripada teman-teman si muka licin menghancurkan harapan si muka lopak untuk terus bersahabat semula seperti sedia kala dengan si muka licin...

si muka lopak tidak mahu cepat melatah dengan keadaan itu dan memikirkan mungkin si muka licin hanya kecewa dan akan kembali menjadi sahabat yang pernah si muka lopak kenali sebelum ini...namun, setelah sepurnama si muka lopak mengharapkan keadaan kembali tenang untuk menyambung kembali persahabatan mereka, hati si muka lopak terguris kembali dengan komen-komen ganazss teman-teman mukabuku si muka licin apabila si muka licin memaklumkan bonus yang telah diterimanya bagi tahun sebelumnya...teman-teman muka buku si muka licin mengomen supaya si muka licin berhati-hati dengan si muka lopak kerna mungkin si muka lopak akan kembali menghubungi si muka licin kerana si muka licin menerima bonus yang lumayan...dan si muka licin langsung tidak mendefend si muka lopak...

oleh itu, si muka lopak telah mengambil keputusan untuk memutuskan terus persahabatan mereka...ini kerana si muka lopak tidak rela dikategorikan sebagai seorang jantan kabaret yang pisau cukur....niat baik si muka lopak dipendam sahaja dan tidak mungkin si muka lopak akan menyambung kembali ikatan persahabatan dengan si muka licin kerana tidak mahu disalah faham lagi...

dengan itu, tamatlah riwayat persahabatan yang penuh telenovela si muka lopak dan si muka licin...

sekian

p.s : cerita ini hanyalah cereka telenovela semasa semata-mata, jika ada berkaitan dengan orang setempat, mohon ampunnnnnn...

ajie

9:33 p.m

27 Januari 2010

Putrajaya

Garang?

Hurmmm....bebaru ni aku dapat komen daripada one of a good friend of mine...yang aku ni garang...erkkk...dalam blog...huh? then bila aku baca balik and then i try to put myself as a third party whois reading up someone's writing...then aku baru perasan...yeah a lil bit gak la...omaigotttt...what happen to me arrrr....i am a peaceful person whois totally serene and bak kata boss aku 'sopan'....and my boss know me well enough...the other day he commented to me straight forward...coz i was complaining (i think that is the appropriate word to use la) about a specific person in certain division in my office (not mine la of course)...and my tone was not really that cool la...it was a lit bit hard and my boss understand quickly...if someone managed to push me to that particular stage...meaning, that particular person seriously done something TOTALLY WRONG...and my boss commented to my staffs that he knew me well enough work-wise for a year i had been under his supervision, that it was rare to see me lose my cool...it only happened once before...and it happened again the other day...betul la nak kena hempuk la this person dengan aku ari tu...aku dah sampai tahap kalau letak ais kat muka pon boleh cair within 5 seconds sebab dah panassszzzz...sebab dia nak melawan jugak benda yang dia dah salah in the first place and silap besar la cari pasal dengan aku yang betul tau pasal benda tu...tak paham apa aku cakap...erkkkk....

Okay...wahhh...baru aku prasan...sebelum ni majority of my writings are about movies i had watched, places  i had travelled and of course food and more food...then lately i noticed i done lots of whinings...rather than a substantial educational writings (erkkk~boring) on my observation about people around me...well basically i thought my whinings was actually a substantial educational writings, tapi bila aku baca balik la kan, memang satu bentuk luahan ayat-ayat yang agak ganas la...

For some who doesnt really know me in person, aku seriously tak tau ler aper ler diorang punya perception about me upon reading my writings la kan...judging from it, mesti orang tak sangka aku ini adalah seorang yang peace-loving and very laid back....yeah i am...very the laid back...tanya saja la member skolah aku dulu whether they remember me? most of them dont....sebab memang aku seorang yang sangat low profile and lay low below the radar...and pendiam jugak...heheheh....yeah someone does not agree yeah...but it is true la...seriously...

Reading back my some of my previous postings la, i think i need to re-vamp myself la kot...back to writing things that i love about...movies, travels, eating, listening, shopping (errkkk~yeah guys do shop too, and coming it from me, it is a budget shopping okeh)...have to tone down on my writings about my disatisfaction with my surroundings la...back in the old days (my old blog) i love to write about my particular perception about life around me...i remember there was this entry waktu aku zaman usm, aku dengan kawan aku la, si ishak took a ride on a minibus and just try to observe people who are gettin in and gettin out of the minibus while trying to interprete whats going on with their mind at that particular time...or we observe two people's conversation and try to imitate what they were talking about....hahahha...it was fun...and wrote my observation about it...which was kinda cool...tapi la nie dah naik keta...bon bon pon dah semakin membesar sebab maleh nak naik publik trenspot sudah....denggg....

But then again...i do take note on what my good friend observed about me and try to improve on that...trying to be the old mamal that my friend used to know prior to me having this extra ridiculous stress...no worry yeah...i'll try...

ajie

2:48 p.m

27 January 2010

Putrajaya

Sharing, Telling, Bragging

It kinda disturbing when one simple phrase can incite different reactions/ perception from three different group of people that you know...

For instance (instance only lah)
*I GOT STRAIGHT As FOR MY EXAM*

Close Friends
sharing : it meant as to share the joy that you feel of getting something that considered as an achievement...

People That You Know But Doesn't Seem To Have Any Problems With You
telling : it meant as a harmless statetment, just to state a fact with no hidden attention underneath the statement...

People That You Know & DOES Have Problems With You (Enemies)
bragging : show off, ingat bagus sangat la tu...

I don't know whether others would agree on this with me...but this is only from my own observation lah...one simple statement can be perceived differently by three different group of people...

It also happens a lot to bloggers as well...as far as i know, people who blog just merely trying to share their daily endeavours and their joy...or just making a statement about things that happened around them...but then again, some others would simply term it as bragging about life to others...errrkkkk...

Please grow up lah...its not that hard to do you see...keep those positive attitude coming...and i do try to remind myself about this as well...try to be positive about things in life...coz nobody's life is perfect...that's why it is called life in the first place...

ajie
7:16 p.m
25 January 2010
Putrajaya

'Photo'graphic Memories

~life full of smiles, laughs and loves~

ajie

12:27 p.m

22 January 2010

Putrajaya

Earworm Alert! Nobody Nobody But You...

It has been quite a while since a song stucked in my ear and head, and refused to get out of it...the latest one is this catchy korean song by these really cute as a pie korean girls who called themselves as the Wonder Girls...

i first listened to the song while i was in my car (i rarely listened to radio since i had iPod)...and this song came out and it was just nice...but i didn't catch the name nor the singer...okay la...then the other day, i went karaoke with friends kat alamanda...si zetty boleh plak pergi amik this bidio klip la...ingatkan lagu aper ler dia nak nyanyi....the bidio klip is seriously something else la...setting ala ala 60an gitu...memula ada la mamat sekor ni dok tengah nyanyi...siap ada bekap singer lagi tuh...lagu ntah aper aper ajer...okay la...then after that, there was this scene whereas the guy was approached with a new song called nobody (hence the song lah)...piano acoustic sound lah...nice enough...

nak dijadikan cerita...waktu konsert dia nak wat performance for the first time lagu tu, boleh plak dia sakit perut...kalakar nak mampus weih...dok practice nyanyi lagu tu dalam toilet waktu tengah berry....tak senonoh betul....denggg....dah siap berry, baru dia sedar tisu toilet dah abis (orang korea tak basuh dengan air ker? euwwww)...pada masa yang sama (jeng jeng jeng) kat pentas, si emcee telah mengumumkan la performance mamat yang dalam toilet tak bley nak basuh, oooppppsss silap, lap dia punya bon bon selepas berry itu...eeeuuuuwwww....so bekap singers dia ini lah yang come on and save the day...jeng jeng jeng...

dengggg....the dance moves are hot....rileks and simple simple ajer....tapi sebab semua pergerakan sharp and sekata, it made the moves effortless....and cute...seriously....kena sendiri tengok dia punya bidio klip baru la paham what did i meant by dat....hahahahah....one thing for sure, the bidio klip was cool....

and lagu pon sangat cool okay....it came out in both korean and english version due to the demand...it was first released in korea in 2008, but since it became a hit over youtube, they decided to record an english version and try to break the american market in 2009....

bak kata member aku, aku memang terlepas keretapi la....lambat dengar....memang pon...coz i rarely listen to radio...kalau ada lagu best yang kengkawan aku rekemen, i just download it from the net and then upload it to my iPod...easy....

sekarang nie lagu nie dah giler stuck dalam telinga taknak kuar kuar...semalam siap donlod plak versi ballad...but i like the original version better....bila la aku nak get it out of my ear la...aduhai....nobody nobody but you....

ajie
9:37 a.m
19 January 2010
Putrajaya

Faces That Made My Day In 2009

-without them, my life would never be the same-

ajie

6:14 p.m

15 January 2010

Putrajaya

Jobless Months

I got a new computer today in the office...or rather say that it is a new sewaan la...bukan new specs...ni semua sebab sistem e*SPKB tak bley running on other OS than XP sahaja...so kempunan ler aku nak menggunakan Windows 7 yang vogue tahap gaban tu (adik aku install kat dia punya Vaio, giler smooth okay)..and pc yang aku baru dapat nie spec dia lagi low daripada yang sebelum nie...boleh tak? geram pon ada...tapi takper lah...aku guna pon untuk wat kerja...and abis sangat pun sebab aku nak surf the net ajer...not really playing games la using office computer...nak mampossss????

memandangkan benda ni amik masa gak ler, aku pun gi ler pinjam komputer zaza sebab zaza gi meeting...and then semua fail aku tengah diupload ke pc yang baru, so aku tak der aper nak wat ler...wat le check list audit and all...and in between that aku buka la emel  yahoo aku....

aku dah guna emel tu since aku final year kat USM lagi...dulu aku wat account emel tu dengan nama sebegitu coz it sounds formal...and sedap skit kalau nak antar emel untuk mintak kerja....but nowadays it has become part of my brand....my name as my own brand la...blog pun itu, fesbuk pun itu, account bank pon semua username yang sama or almost the same la...

then i browse back to my old emels....emel emel yang waktu time aku baru habis blajar nak tunggu konvo...time yang sangat happy dalam hidup aku tapi juga time paling kering in my entire life....dulu waktu final year final semester aku dok luar...sewa apartment dengan my friends la...7 orang....RM550 per month...so campur dengan letrik semua ada la dalam RM100 seorang sebulan....okay la...apartment ada swimming pool beb....aku ingat lagi, aku, amin, mawok, charlie, ejam, boboy dengan kadir...aku share bilik dengan boboy, amin dengan mawok and kadir (master bedroom) and then ejam dengan charlie...waktu time tu aku dok kerja part time kat kopibin la baskin robin la setabak la and ada la beberapa lagi...aku pun dok wat part time secara tak berhemah menjadi translator untuk kengkawan aku yang perlukan translation...tapi tak pro la kan...siap taip...arial 12, 1.5 spacing dengan harga RM0.50 satu muka surat...and ini pun aku start charging lepas kena sound direct to ampang point dengan geng Bach. of Arts. Translation and Interpretation (BATI) yang memang wat ini sebagai side income...before this aku wat free ajer kat kengkawan aku for lunch meal or dinner ker...tapi sebab dah kena, terpaksa la charging...and itu pun harga lagi murah daripada junior BATI okay....sebab aku bukan geng translation...hahaha

okay la...boleh la tampung hidup single yang makan ala kad ajer, time tu aku minum kopibin and setabak on daily basis woooo (dah nama pon kerja part time kat situ), baskin robbins tu sampai dah naik muak dah lah...tapi memang kering kontang la.....brapa la sangat kan duit....bayar sewa and then makan and minyak motor, abis camtu ajer ler....

then bila aku tengok balik emel aku, banyaknya emel yang aku mintak kerja dulu...dengan Silterra la, Motorola la, Spansion, Siemens, Dell dan banyak lagi...and kebanyakan semuanya pon jawapan yang mengecewakan...mostly just because i am a fresh graduate and also because my CGPA is not that high (i done badly in my first semester that effect my whole studies)...and then aku tengok balik beberapa emel daripada kengkawan aku...and one of my really close friend back then, yang sekarang dah memang tak kontek dah due to hurrrmmmm...tak payah citer arrr...banyak giler aku dok mengadu kat dia...back then he was still in UK...and now in Germany...skali skala balik mai malaysia memang best arrr dok melepak...dulu la...sekarang tidak lagi....

and semua pon majority emel aku dok whining pasal being jobless....aku ingat i was jobless for quite a few months...dapat final result in June 2006 tak silap aku, and then August 2006 aku graduate...September 2006 aku gi dok camping, trekking dengan diving dengan member aku ke langkawi beberapa minggu and then October 2006 bulan puasa...and waktu bulan puasa tu aku gi 2 interview...satu kat KL and satu kat Penang...one for an American company and another for Japanese company...yang dengan American company tu, the interviewer who was the Operational Manager called me personally to tell me that i got the job and asked me to wait for HR to call me...and the HR of the Japanese company called me up and told me the same...but i told the Japanese if i can re-think about it since i was rooting for the other, tapi aku tak cakap camtu la kat dia...sengal la sangat kan...and another thing is, i was not quite ready to move to KL just yet, back then only la....but some problems occured with the American company....the Operational Manager to call me up and apologised as he really wanted me to work under his supervision...it was seriously an irritating moment, coz the reason given by HR of why i was not hired was totally stupid...but bukan rezeki aku kot...so aku amik la kerja dengan Japanese company itu that turn out to be a great experience....i started working in November 2006 until August 2007...less than a year...but i had made a mark with that particular company....my boss was not really willing to let me go...they counter-offer...but then again it is govt to private sector? sure la aku pilih govt...and it was a great feeling as you departed from the company on a good note....

then i started working with the govt commencing August 2007 until now...a job that i really like....eventho compared to the former company, my paycheck is seriously 'different'...and the jobscope was totally diferent as well...and totally differs from what i studied before as well...deng...but it is cool...learning and venturing to new territories...open up for new things....

bila aku tengok balik, and baca balik emels tu semua...i kinda remember the stress feeling of being jobless...especially when your friends already got a job...and boleh kata 100% budak geofizik dapat kerja...and most of them with an international oil company...arghhh...stress seketika...and waktu time tu jugak ada kawan aku yang kerja dengan this one company that send her for training in Vienna for 6 whole months...balik ajer terus kawin...duit banyak dowh....arghhhhh....tensen lagi....and thinking about that, if i didnt take in this govt post, i will end up with the american company and will be based in texas for at least a year..aku dapat tawaran tu pada masa yang sama aku dapat kerja govt ini....but my father wanted me to be a govt servant and after taking in consideration semua benda, aku pun kata....okay lah....govt lah...and i think i had made a right choice...

being jobless memang sakit ati...esp bila tengok kengkawan lain dapat kerja...wahhhh....rasa jeles tak boleh tahan woooo....tengok diorang beli keta la semua benda la....wahhhh...geremmmm....tapi alhamdulillah....rezeki aku lambat skit sampai....tapi ada gak la rezeki...and i am in where i am rite now...and i am seriously happy that my life turns out for the better....kalau tak, mana la mampu aku nak berjalan jalan ke hulu ke hilir dunia ini....hehehehe

ajie
3:39 p.m
12 January 2010
Putrajaya