Thursday, January 28, 2010

2 Reasons Why Your BFF Should Never Be Your Girlfriend/ Boyfriend

Its my own perception...people can choose to agree or not to agree...

Reason One
- Your BFF know too much about each other...a lil bit too much i might say coz as usual we tend to be a lil bit transparent with BFF compared to respective girlfriend/ boyfriend (as i said this is my perception only la, maybe not applied to others)

Reason Two
- If it doesn't work out between the two of you, you will not only lose your girlfriend/ boyfriend...but you will also lose your BFF

Senseless guy going on with another senseless ramblings...

ajie
3:17 p.m
29 January 2010
Putrajaya

10 comments:

Al Hadi said...

i totally agree with u. too much knowledge isn't good. especially the not-so-innocent ones!

SurayaHarris said...

mamal..aku tak setuju dengan hang..shah is my bestfren dan juga hubby..He know EVERYTHING about me..pas kawen, u have to be true with ur wife..sooner or later she'll discover you..mkay..

'lucky I'm in love with my bestfren'

hahaha..
=)

muhamadakmalwahab said...

hadi : i think us guys do think differently isn't it...most girls dont agree...

mama suraya : lucky for you...

marmalade said...

can't really say.
ini semua kerja Tuhan. jodoh.

muhamadakmalwahab said...

yeah i do agree it is all jodoh...
but if i can help it, i try not to...been there, done that...

papaYA said...

I dont mind though..
And are you in denial? hehehehe

Ape salahnya best-friend jadi soulmate. Tapi bila dah kawin, your husband and your children diwajibkan dijadikan sebagai sahabat baik.
Bukan aku cakap, pakar motivasi yang cakap..

muhamadakmalwahab said...

bukan in denial yaya...tapi aku dah pernah try...baru ajer last year...skg ni end up kitorang dua dah tak talk to each other...back then kitorang sangat la rapat...so i just talking from experience...maybe lepas kawin tu wajib la...tapi aku seriously dont think that it is a good idea...unless awal2 ko memang target nak dia jadi respective gf/bf dan berselindung di sebalik bff dulu...that is different...tapi kalau kawan baik kita yang kita nak convertkan relationship itu...hurmm...doesnt work for me la at least...

papaYA said...

I felt in love with my best-friend a few years back (eh no, 10years ago).. How cant I not. He was the most understanding person I knew back then. We can chat for hours. mase tu takde handphone so bro tu siap simpan coin gayut kat public phone.

But we ignored the feelings eventhough we mutually felt the same thing. Sebab masa tu bodoh2 lagi kan.

However, amazingly I have good relationship with my exes up till now.. I guess, when we have met the right one, ape2 yang exes kita pernah buat dulu macam terbakar jadi abu ditiup angin ;)

Ara Izat said...

lama tak read your blog. hehe. busy bangat sih.

i agree with you. too much at stake la aku rasa.

i got close with a guy who became my bff and end up being his gf and things didnt work out and now we dont even talk to each other.

kalau dah kawen tu lain citer laaa. mmg la husband/wife jadi bff kita. hehe

muhamadakmalwahab said...

wah...busy dengan preparation mau kawin la ini...klepak klepung (bunyi kompang)...
i think only people who had been in this situation understand how hazardous of the situation can be...
jadi bff lepas kawin harus la kan...tapi still pompuan mesti ada bff sendiri gak and laki pon mesti ada bff sendiri gak...baru fair and lovely...kalau tak sapa yang nak hit some sense bila laki bini dok gaduh ajer...hahahah

p.s:aku tak register untuk PTK hujung bulan nie...register for next round...busy nak prepare budget 2011 sih...huhuhu