Wednesday, January 27, 2010

Girl Friends or Girlfriend? Boy Friends or Boyfriend?

Confused...aku rasa the wording was clear enough...the first adjective is to represent the sex of the friends and the latter are 'the' someone special for respective people...tapi kan apesal, in certain cases, people always refused to believe the former and rather believe in the latter...confused again?

Camni la kan...contohnya sorang laki ni kawan rapat dengan pompuan nie...mesti orang luar akan cakap, owh that is his girlfriend and vice versa...padahal the truth was it was girl-friend and boy-friend respectively...bukan ada hanky panky lovey dovey romi juli titanik style...tapi people mostly refused to believe that...why?

Easy (bak kata Ady), kalau laki tu kawan dengan pompuan tu tapi takder feeling nak 'ehem ehem' dengan pompuan tu, laki tu ada 'something' wrong somewhere...wadafish...tapi not in his case (dengan selambanya mendefend diri), coz in his case, they know each other rather too well that it is impossible that they would end up as a couple...sebab dah macam adik bradik (eventho not blood-related)...yeah...that is the right answer actually...

Aku agree to the latter answer (yang awal tu memang sengal ajer bunyiknya) coz for me, its not easy for a guy to be close to a girl...and it is even harder to make a girl as his best friend coz both of them are two different entity (men are from mars and women are from venus bullshit thingie)...tanya aku apsal? i dont have any answer for that...but from what i had seen within my friends and the surroundings...no matter how close one gets to their respective partner, they would still go back to their respective best friends when the goin's get tough...that's a fact...it is very rare to see a guy/ gal share every single detail with their respective partner (my friend said it is a stupid thing to do)...why? relationship have its own percentage of failure...and it is quite high...imagine if both broke up non-amicably? all hell break loose man...(fahrin and linda onn case, hellooooo)...every single dirt are out in the open space....erkkkkk

So which one is more important? the former or the latter....we have to understand the fact that girlfriend/ boyfriend are not necessarily end up to be your respective partner...but your girl friends and boy friends will remain as your friends forever (high percentage lah daripada kapeling)...this is a fact...not some illustrated illusion of some sort....

In the nutshell...take care of your friends...coz they would very likely to be around regardless...i am not saying that your girlfriend/ boyfriend wont, but this is just from my observation...so please do consider your friends' feelings when you started to ignore them because you have girlfriend/ boyfriend...coz you better pray that your girlfriend/ boyfriend will be with you forever, otherwise, when you lose your girlfriend/ boyfriend, you already lose your friends prior to the break up if you are not careful....just a senseless ramblings from a senseless guy...

ajie
2:24 p.m
28 January 2010
Putrajaya

5 comments:

marmalade said...

it is not lack of love that causes failed marriages/relationships, but it is lack of friendship.

this is a very true quote that i got it somewhere.

Mr. Moshuchi said...

sometime, someone (girl friend) can't accepted when we has new one (girlfriend) if they are guy..also same thing happen if they are girl.

i think guys more easier to accept this situation compare to girls..but i don't know/not sure about it..

friendship is the best thing in the world..right?

muhamadakmalwahab said...

mala : somehow i do agree with it...eventho i dont understand fully what does that mean...

inchek shuko : friendship is the best thing that anyone can find...it is in fact the best feeling in the world when you have your friends around you to share your joy and your pain...

Ara Izat said...

i prefer to use the term 'partner' than 'boyfriend'.

words are very powerful in our minds. =P

muhamadakmalwahab said...

betul betul betul betul...

kalau sebut girl-friend dengan girlfriend, sama ajer cara sebutan...

this one i do agree with you ms ara...